The Gift of the Good Enough Mother

“I am not OK with being with a good enough mother. I work too hard to settle for that.” One of my closest friends (and one of the most devoted mothers I know) said those words to me a couple of years ago, and I’ve never forgotten them. On a personal level, I was...

13 Ways Mindfulness Makes Me a Better Parent

I recently got the following question on my Twitter feed: Do you feel meditation has really changed you? More relaxing, less stress? So on? The short answer to these questions is YES! All of the above! But that answer isn’t terribly helpful, so I thought it would be...

Why I Write About Mindful Parenting

“This meditation stuff is so great. You’ve got to do it. What a pain in the ass.” Jon Kabat-Zinn, one of the individuals most responsible for bringing for bringing mindfulness and meditation to western popular culture, said those words at a conference I attended last...

When Motherhood is a Big Fat F*ck You

I recently came across a post titled “Motherhood: The Big Fat Fuck You.” Of course I clicked on it, along with hundreds of thousands of other folks (over 91,000 of whom shared it on Facebook). And I read it, and nodded along. In it, the author talked about losing it...